Thursday, January 28, 2010

Overcoming The Flaws Of Premarital Sex

"Getting married for sex is like buying a 747 for the free peanuts." (Jeff Foxworthy)

‘Sex addiction’ is what you’ve got. Your next level is ‘Sex Madness,’ followed by ‘Sex Recklessness.’ If you are still holding on having active sex before marriage you’ll end up with ‘Sex Suicide,’ the act of deliberately killing yourself! You’ve got two permanent options: Abstain or Die from diseases, emotional pain, hurts or keep losing your true value and worth.

Are u surprises about what you’ve just read? I’m talking to you and about an act carried out for reproduction or pleasure involving penetration, especially one in which a boy inserts his so-call erect penis into a girl’s tempting vagina!

Sex is not God’s joke on human beings! Young girls have no idea that ‘Sex plays a more important role in the life of women than in that of men.’ Eventually, many feel vacant or guilty when they’ve realized what should’ve been done to prevent early teen pregnancy or multiple abortions. Booked to such ignorance, countless young boys also believe that ‘since sex is on my mind, I should have it.’ Consequently, the both parties accuse one another of being ‘In lost,’ and suffer from long term pain, followed by emotional bankruptcy.

The question is: who will recover the losses? There have been instances mothers share the sexual responsibilities with their daughters by accepting the pregnancy, while other fathers force their sons to take full restraint because their boys may have refuse to control their sexual aspiration and listen to parental advice.

“Fast sex, like fast food,” Suzanne Fields reflects, “is cheap, but it doesn't nourish the body - or the soul.” Young folks have no idea about the depraved upshot of early sex until they’ve been through a long period of trauma or distress. Most youth die from the neck down between the ages of 12 – 25 because they start sexing and stop thinking! Too many people are out there engaged into ‘too many’ premarital sex because they lack ‘Simple Sex Wisdom.’ “Sex lies at the root of life,” says Henry Ellis “and we can never learn to reverence life until we know how to understand sex.”

The right questions are: what secure assurance we’ve got as young people when ‘pornography production’ is on the increase? By what means have pone videos on teen’s phones and TV stations contribute to youth success? In fact, what guarantee does our young generation have when we are not thought about ‘SEX?’ Listen to William Glasser, “Sex is on the minds of most people, especially those who shouldn't be having it.” Are u embarrassed? I’m I permitted to ask if parents are talking or teaching ‘sex’ in the homes? Is ‘sex’ preached in the churches? How often ‘sex education’ is thought in our schools and prioritize on the media?

Who says “‘sex’ boils down to maturity?” Stinking NO! What you don’t know is expensive and might kill you. I believe early sex before marriage [premarital sex] owned its powerful source to attraction, desire and satisfaction. Contrary to popular believe, other things being equal, as the world advance in technology and other vital areas, the problems about premarital sex shape in diverse traditions, nations or backgrounds. For example, modern dating and courtship often involve sexual relations. I’ve read from Microsoft ® Encarta ® 2009 that, “Studies indicate that more than three-quarters of young people in the United States have had sexual intercourse by the age of 19.” You will be shock if you find out about your country and spread the message!

Here is the first modern problem you’ve got with attraction: appearing to be ‘sweet-sexteen’, redesigning your body and painting your face, exposing the ‘breast’ and ‘butt hole junctions.’ And without mutual hesitation, young girls dominate the sex sales competition by following your footsteps knowing fully well that men are move by what they see. It’s like being addicted to appear attractive in the public. “Sex is a big question mark.” Catherine Deneuve would comment, “It is something people will talk about forever.”

Second, the imminent problem of desire: a burning urge to want to have sexual intercourse with somebody. It’s like you just can’t sleep until you’ve succeeded in getting that guy or that girls ‘in bed’ with you. It presents a lie and tells you that, ‘why marry if you have access to every day sex?’ You want to get out but it’s like you’ve been hook and bond to him or her. Sometimes, the desire is to sex you and dump you. Furthermore, the yearning is so popular among young people; the modern-day mate-selection process frequently includes the practice of cohabitation—living together in an unmarried sexual relationship. Research depicts that, ‘Cohabitation has a long history among poor people.’

Finally, sexual satisfaction holds the DNA of all ‘premarital sex’ problems. Because the sexual urge is natural and the desire is high among youth, the satisfaction derived from sex is also high. The truth is, there is no real satisfaction of early sex or premarital sex (sex before marriage). It carries the eternal distress of bitterness, the trauma of emotional stress and the wicked memory of guiltiness. Be warned, anything that cannot stop you from having sex before marriage have succeed in making you a fool. “Sex is interesting, but it's not totally important.” Charles Bukowski acclaim, “I mean it's not even as important (physically) as excretion. A man can go seventy years without a piece of ass, but he can die in a week without a bowel movement.”

Sex is so sweet till the active partner always wants to do new sex-stuff to the other. Sex is unique and the experience is beautiful at the right time. You may ask, ‘but what’s the right time?’ The right time is in marriage, not out of marriage. It goes with God’s blessings, favor, satisfaction and total happiness. Otherwise, what you will see first and admire outside marriage, is what the devil have given you. For young folks below 18, I strongly recommended that you abstain from sex and all its related concerns including sex magazines, local sex newspapers, pornography videos, or underground sexual activities. To guarantee abstinence, act as if it were impossible to have sex.

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