Joeforlove’s Season Greetings: Top 13 Tips

Dave Barry wrote, "Once again we find ourselves enmeshed in the Holiday Season, that very special time of year when we join with our loved ones in sharing centuries-old traditions such as trying to find a parking space at the mall. We traditionally do this in my family by driving around the parking lot until we see a shopper emerge from the mall, then we follow her, in very much the same spirit as the Three Wise Men, who 2,000 years ago followed a star, week after week, until it led them to a parking space."

It is said that, "In the old days, it was not called the Holiday Season; the Christians called it 'Christmas' and went to church; the Jews called it 'Hanukka' and went to synagogue; the atheists went to parties and drank. People passing each other on the street would say 'Merry Christmas!' or 'Happy Hanukka!' or (to the atheists) 'Look out for the wall!'"

The great basketball coach John Wooden said, "You cannot live a perfect day without doing something for someone who will never be able to repay you." To all my wonderful friends, and fans, I must use this opportunity to assert with some degree of happiness saying, ‘Season Greetings.’ You have been my inspiration and my motivation to persuade my dream. How could this year be without you?

Top 13 Tips to Increase your Season Benefits:

Forget About The Past Failures In 2009

Forgive Yourself And Anyone For Anything Done Wrong

Count Your Achievement

Appreciate Your Efforts

Love The People Who Love You The Most

Spend Time With Your Family

Put Smiles On Your Face

Give A Gift To Someone New

Make A Card Yourself And Write A Letter To Your Sweet Heart

Make Someone Happy

Invest In Others

Be Aggressively Thankful

Make A BIG 2010 Plan

Listen to Phyllis Diller, "Christmas is a time when everybody wants his past forgotten and his present remembered. What I don't like about office Christmas parties is looking for a job the next day." Hahahah, just kidding. But may this Christmas bring you the joy you’ve long to have, the courage to you need to continue achieving, the love you need to feel happy and the blessing that opens the doors of opportunities!

Thanks for Reading,

Joeforlove

The 12 Qualities of a Winner

INTRODUCTION: This is one of my best best master piece from my mentor: Mike Murdock . "12 Qualities of a Winner," it have empowered my winning story. It can be the same unto whosoever that read carefully and apply these principles. Everyone Is A Potential Winner. Winning Don’t Just Happen, It Takes Decision, Planning, Efforts And Discipline.

“If you want to be a winner, hang around with winners.”

Christopher D. Furman

Quality # 1: Winners Sets Goal

“Goal” is something one wishes to obtain or reach. How do u set Goal?

· S – Specific Phil 3:13

· M – Measurable Phil 4: 13; 3: 14

· A – Achievable

· R – Realistic Rom. 12: 3

· T – Time base Habb 2:3

· O – On paper Habb 2:3

· N - Notable Deut 29:29

· E – Exciting Luke 13:32; Isa. 14:24

WISDOM: When you decide what you want the method for achieving it will come.

Quality # 2: Winner Organizes His Life Around His Dream And Goal

© Stop dwelling on the past and move on with your life – Jos. 1:1, 2

© Make the most of the present Eph. 5:15 -17

© There is a future ahead of you, which you need to prepare for – 1 Cor. 2:9

© Jesus organized His life around His Dream. By the age of 12 He was in the temple

WISDOM: Keep things in order around you that moves you towards your future.

QUALITY # 3: Winner Create A Climate That Feed Their Passion For Their Dream And Goal

© Example: David 1 Sam. 17.25 – 30

© You must control the atmosphere around you

© Do not create anything you don’t want a more of.

WISDOM: The atmospheres you create determine the product you produce.

QUALITY # 4: Winner Chooses A Mentor

© A mentor is someone who sees your future before you do. A person who habitually advise.

Example: Esther – Mordecia Est. 2:7

Timothy – Paul I Tim. 1.12

Elisha – Elijah

© The quality of the winner / mentor cannot be determined by the quality of the prodigy.

WISDOM: The passion of the prodigy can be measure by his pursuit of his mentor

QUALITY # 5: Winner Solve The Problem Closer To Them

© The problem closer to you is your exist from prison – Ex. Joseph – Gen 40.5 – 8

© God use your present to qualify you for your future

© Reward in life is determined by the problem you are willing to solve for others.

WISDOM: your salary will be determined by the problem you are willing to solve

QUALITY # 6: Winner Packages Themselves For Where They Are Going Instead Of Where They Are Coming From

© You have to package yourself for the office you want to enter

© Physicallt, mentally ect packaging matters

© 98% of those employed was because of their physical appearance

© Example: Joseph had to change his cloth before going to the palace gen. 41.4

© Ruth before she went to Boaz Ruth 3.1 – 3

QUALITY # 7: Winner Recognizes The Greatness In Those Closer To Them

If you wan to do everything alone you are out for failure and self destruction – Moses (Ex. 18.14 21)

© Any ability you do not have God placed it in the people closer to you. Moses & Aaron

© Love is the secret code to the treasure of that person’s potential – I Cor 12:31 – 13.1

WISDOM: If you are looking for everyone around to be perfect you are out for a lonely life.

QUALITY # 8: Winner Create Daily Routine That Moves Them Hourly Towards Their Greatest Dream

© People do not determine their future; they decide their habit and their habit create their future

© Something you are doing daily is creating your future.

WISDOM: The secret of your future is hidden in your daily routine

QUALITY # 9: Winner Study And Document The Result Of Their Effort And Those Under Their Supervision – Luke 9:10

© You have to evaluate your life daily, weekly, monthly, yearly

© As you evaluate you will know how far you are in your plans and desire.

WISDOM: Anything you ignored diminishes; anything inspected improved.

QUALITY # 10: Winners Knows The Co-Product And Legacy They Want To Live With Their Lives.

© You must know in one word what your life is all about

© If you don’t know what your life is about no one knows and no one will fellow you.

WISDOM: You will only succeed with something that concerns you.

QUALITY # 11: Winners Recognizes Enemies As Opportunities For Promotion

Enemies Are As Necessary As Friends

© Friends create comfort while your enemies create change

© Enemies are permitted by God to change the season of your life.

Example: Goliath change the season of David’s life

Joseph brothers change the season of his life

Judas change the season of Jesus’ life

WISDOM: The size of your enemies determines the size of your reward.

QUALITY # 12: Winner Recognizes God As Their True Source Of Everything.

© You have to see God as your source and every other person as a channel.

© God will use people but they are not the source.

Wisdom: God will always supply once you depend on Him.

About Mike Murdock: www.mikemurdock.com (born April 18, 1946 in Lake Charles, Louisiana, United States) is a televangelist and pastor of the Wisdom Center ministry based in Fort Worth, Texas. He preached his first public sermon at the age of eight and began full-time evangelism at the age of 19. Murdock claims that he receives hundreds of invitations to speak in churches, colleges, and business corporations. He has appeared on TBN, CBN, BET, INSP, WORD, Daystar and other television networks, and his weekly television program, Wisdom Keys with Mike Murdock. Murdock is a Founding Trustee on the Board of International Charismatic Bible Ministries with Dr. Oral Roberts.

Joeforlove Love Alphabeth

Pratical Alphabetial Approach To Love

“Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.”

— Oliver Wendell Holmes

A — Always be the first to smile with the person you love

B — Believe in love at first sight

C — Create the confidence, stability and passion in yourself as you love

D — Don’t judge a person by whom he/she is in love with. Judge them by their friends

E — Every time you have a chance to love, never give your heart and body to someone you don’t really know

F — Friendship will be damage when you break up. You will lose the people you need around you

G — Get committed to using your head in matters of the heart

H — Have this in mind, love begin with a smile, grow with a kiss but ends in the grave

I — In getting the person you love, fight fairly. No cry—keep trying

J — Joke with the people you love. Love them as if they will soon be lost

K — Know that if you have any reason to not love a person, don’t waste your time loving them

L — Look out for three things in the person you love: The Challenge, the attraction, and the Respect

M — Mark this: if you truly love someone, you will never put pressure and unreasonable

problem on them.

N — Never rush into a relationship, you’ll experience more joy as your love gradually develop

O — One key instrument to a lasting relationship could be your little time and gifts you invest

P — People who don’t demand for sex may love you the most

Q — Quality love is good. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it is the only

way to live life happily

R — Remember L-O-V-E: Look—Observe—Verify—Engage

S — Spend time with the person you really love

T — The more you maintain yourself, the more room you create for growth

U — Up keeping a love relationship with knowledge will never end in heartbreak

V — View the person you love as a bird, because, when they fly away, you’ll miss them for the rest of your life

W — When you say “I’m sorry,” look the person in the eye

When you say “I love you,” mean it from your heart

X — X—tra discipline of emotional behaviors, will enable you to avoid hurts and being

manipulated in a love relationship

Y — You risk being deceived by someone with an impure motive

Z — Zealous zigzag love will send you into a zoo of successful frustration.

Thanks for reading!

Joeforlove

Think positively

Your problem is: You waste too much time trying to change people mind on what they think about you. Anything that is successful from stopping you to think positively has plausibly succeeded in making you a failure. In the Bishop ministration, Run To The Water, TD Jakes asserted, “Thinking is the first step to the revolution in your life that is incredibly significant.”

Listen, if you fail to think positively you have succeeded in becoming a loser. Winners are confident, optimistic and focused on good things rather than the bad. Be certain and not in doubt. Winners live above average and is producing good results because they have an innately beneficiaries character.

Beyond all doubt or question, you must use the mind to subdue imminent challenges. If you are bound in your thinking you’ll fail to be creative. Everything we touch, feel or see began in the thought of somebody’s mind. It becomes a thought before it came into existence. Do not allow anybody laugh at your thinking.

British advertising executive and author, Andy Law (1956 –) reflected, “Creativity can provide all the solution to the complex problems of the workplace. Creative thinking is a positive, generative force that uses imagination to power business.” If you think positively, your mind goes to work and won’t allow anything get in its way. No force will arrest or resist your achievement strategy. Be in-love with your thought!

60 A GAL/LADY/WOMAN WANTS BUT WONT ASK FOR!!

1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her 1 of your sweatshirts
5. Kiss her slowly.

Are you remembering this?

6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her everywhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.

KEEP READING

11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can't get to her friends. it makes her feel loved.

Are you thinking of someone?

16. Always hug her and say hi whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she's beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.

One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.

21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car (if any)- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she's your everything - ONLY if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her.
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know

WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE IT AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US

26. DON'T lie to her
27. DON'T cheat on her!
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants

29. Text messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her.
30. Be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.

ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER BECAUSE, IT'S IMPORTANT

31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold YOU too.
32. When you are ALONE hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the CHEEK: (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her LIGHTLY.
35. Dont EVER tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her.

REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT

36. When people DISS her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her EYES and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the STARS and put her head on your chest so you can cuddle.
39. When walking next to each other grab her HAND.
40. When you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible

MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED

41. Call or text her EVERY night to wish her SWEET DREAMS
42. COMFORT her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for LONG walks at night.
44. ALWAYS remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much u love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while sitting on her.
46. Rub her back--feels good
47. Give her your coat if she's cold--thats always cute
48. Write letters on her back with your finger--feels good ;D
49. Let her sit on your lap
50. DON'T poke her hard...but if you want to mess around just do it lightly.
51. HOLD her HAND in PUBLIC.
52. Even if she looks BAD one day tell her she's BEAUTIFUL
53. Keep conversations flowing...talk about anything usually they just go along with it.
54. If their hair is in their face move it out of her face and then kiss her passionatley and gently.
55. Surprisingly sneek up on her and hug her from behind--loves it.
56. Kiss her in the rain.
57. Pick her up like in The Notebook and kiss her.
58. Slow dance with no music
59. Don't ignore her or be nerveous around her--everything is going to be okay.
60. Love her, kiss her, hold her, and you'll be good to go. ;D

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TOP 101Tips Joeforlove require form a Real Lady!

“A love affair with knowledge will never end in heartbreak.” – anon

Love is sweet. Love is Unique and the feeling is special. But to experience such a natural bound between the people you love, you have to sacrifice, time, words, and money. Above all, you must prepare yourself satisfactorily to be the lover the lady or gentleman needs you to be.

However, as a young gentleman who respects ‘LOVE,’ I’ve spell out ‘TOP 101Tips Joeforlove require form a Real Lady!’ Remember, every lover is restricted to his/her opinion based upon their ‘Love background!’ I really feel that my real lady should:

1. Love herself first and love me with her whole heart
2. Allow me to do the touching most often.
3. Tell me stories. Something funny, scary, exciting or juicy
4. Tell me that I’m very sweet and Special
5. Give me space to have date with my girlfriends and go out with my boys all times. If she

doesn’t trust me with this, then we can’t get married.
6. Never take me for granted.
7. Think about me? ‘Have he eaten?’ OR ‘Will it make him happy?’
8. Be good to herself, then be good to me
9. No matter how long, she should never think she can read my mind. OH!
10. Experience new things together like eating street food and exploring to new places.
11. Do something that we used to do for each other before.
12. Respect me.
13. Mind her appearance! Stay Fit and healthy for each day.
14. Listen and listen. Hear me out especially during argument.
15. Speak up about the embarrassed or uncomfortable stuff now. Like money and sex. The

earlier, the better.
16. Show interest in my work.
17. Ask me how I feel.
18. Fix a love card together
19. Send me love cards.
20. Call me very often to ask me surprise question
21. Never leave my presence mad.
22. Never go to bed in anger.
23. Put me first in her prayers.
24. Kiss each other good night
25. Be my best friend preferably before becoming my girlfriend.
26. Tell me about her dreams.
27. Cook my special or favorite soup or dish. Like gari-yor-gor or beans.
28. Allow me to spend time alone.
29. Always look good, dress good, and smell good to maintain physically attraction.
30. Know that I’m the only person she got.
31. Have fun with Joe.

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Optimism Constantly Triumph

“What generates passion and zeal in you is a clue to revealing your destiny. What you love is a clue to something you contain.”

— Mike Murdock

At the end of a three days workshop with some youth on the Buduburam Refugee Camp, my good friend, Augustine D. N. Sackie Jr, strike a funny but inspired joke. Augus-tigo said, “Two men lived in a city where food was in short supply. One had a big banana to eat. After eating, wait for his pitiful death. The other was deeply in need for just a helpful substance to eat as he gathers strength to keep living.” So fascinated in his joke, “With the motive of departing this life, the first man ate the last healthy banana and dropped the peal to the earth. So in need and packed with regrets for his life, the next man came and found the peal, hurriedly snatch it from the ground, as he hungrily ate the disbursed banana’s peal—only to secure his life. In astonishment, “Are you eating that peal which has no use to me?” Said the first man who threw away the peal, “I think I have reasons to live!” Augustine’s comic story ended.

What you see as nothing is another person’s solution to formulate a life. You are a solution. Optimism is another art of shaping and motivating our confidence. Helen Keller said, “Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.”

I believe that one of the rewards of optimism is to have confidence. Confidence that can give you the drive to wanting to do something in life. What if the man who ate the banana peal had no interest to keep living too? They could both be lost forever—dead!

The preparation to make proper use of the opportunity which flash our way can reveal the attitude and passion within us. W. Clement Stone said, “There is little difference in people, but the little difference makes a big difference. The little difference is attitude. The big difference is whether it is positive or negative.”

It doesn’t pay to get discouraged and unenthusiastic. Although controlling all that happens to us might be possible, but, there is no excuse not to control what happen within us. I have found out that great men have a unique way of thinking. Their taught are not limited to their present circumstances. You have the choice to become an optimist or a pessimist. Become a person full of love, zeal and passion that can make others happy and successful.

Alice Potter can never regret saying, “I am optimistic and confident in all that I do. I affirm only the best for my self and others. I am the creator of my life and my world. I meet daily challenges gracefully and with complete confidence. I fill my mind with positive, nurturing, and healing thoughts.” Remember what Winston Churchill stated, “An optimist sees an opportunity in every calamity, a pessimist sees a calamity in every opportunity.”

Thanks for reading and starting the journing to become a Optimist.

Joeforlove

If You Knew That Success Demands Your Potential, What Will You Do?

“There is no man living who isn’t capable of doing more than he can do.”
— Henry Ford

Recently I saw written on a wall, “If I knew I had the potential to cross unlimited boundaries, ‘I am a billionaire!’ Don’t live a life of regret. When we center our attention on our potential instead of unnecessary boundaries, we will help make ourselves blessings to the world. Charles M. Schwab remarked, “When a man has put a limit on what he will do, he has put a limit on what he can do.”

Let me pose this question for you: If you knew that success demands your potential, what will you do? Stop wasting what you can be and improve the potential within you that will reflect your future. Nothing good about your future lies outside your potential—develop yourself. Don’t ask, “What if it’s not working?” Ask instead, “What if it’s working?”

Having great control of your dreams and desires is a way of unlocking your potential to become better. But, keep in mind, attempting to ignore what is within you can cause you a great harm. Keep telling yourself, ‘I’m great.’ “Everyone has inside himself a piece of good news! The news is that you really don’t know how great you can be, how much you can love, what you can accomplish, and what your potential is” [Anne Frank]!

Potential germinates your passion and desire to progress. It cause every thing within you to come to reality and develop not only your talents, but, it create whatever you want to be and give you the energy to do whatever you intend to do.

Proverbs says, “Nothing’s impossible for those who have to do it.” What sometimes motivates me is that, ‘there is nothing I am going to accomplish without me realizing that I had the potential to achieve it.’ It is very important to understand that we have so mush more potential than where they are right now!

I agreed with Roger Williams, “The greatest crime in the world is not developing your potential. When you do what you do best, you are helping not only yourself, but the world.” The less you concentrate on helping yourself, the more you will develop your potential.

Thanks for Reading and may God increase you and bless your day!

Please feel free to talk to me, send your questions or comments. I'll be glad' to always respond.
josephmdjohnsonsr@gmail.com

Bethel Youth Ghana with Joeforlove

I love what Norman Vincent Peale mused when he said, "If you paint in your mind a picture of bright and happy expectations, you put yourself into a condition conducive to your goal." Our goal cannot be achieved without the pictures of our friends. Though many of the faces in the below pictures are far away from me right now, the youthful moments and constant relationship we've shared still live deep in my heart.

However, to all Bethel youth that are now in Liberia, U.S.A. and other part of our world, please let us not forget the to relate and network with one another. Whenever, I take a look at these pictures, I shout with praise to God for connecting me to great people like you all. What would the world be with out the Bethel youth of Buduburam Refugee Settlement - Ghana? I'll advise us all to Hold a picture of one another very far in our hearts and our minds, so that we won't forget the moment we have shared and the once will should shared when we have an opportunity to do so!


When we meet, we meet at the TOP!

Dare to Predict the Future by the Awareness of a Unique Purpose

Ponder about it: Haven’t most of the unfocused people around you totally lost sight of their purpose? Identify your purpose. Napoleon Hill said, “There is no hope of success for the person who does not have a central purpose, or definite goal at which to aim.” Decide upon your major definite purpose in life and then organize all your activities around it.

Purpose is unique. When God blessed man with a beautiful environment after creation, He told them their purpose [Genesis 1: 28-30]. It is just becoming more unfortunate when the people you know are complete strangers to themselves. Dr. Wayne Dyer asserts, “Everything in the universe has a purpose. Indeed, the invisible intelligence that flows through everything in a purposeful fashion is also flowing through you.”

Steve Goodier, from Follow Your Bliss, declares, “Not everybody can identify a purpose in life. But when you do and when you pursue it, you will be living the kind of life you feel you were meant to live. And what’s more you will be happy.” You have the green light to feel good. Just focus towards the direction in which your effort is going.

Consider it: “All successful people, men and women are big dreamers. They imagine what their future could be, ideal in every respect, and then they work every day towards their distant vision, that goal or purpose” [Brian Tracy]. Always find yourself in that position of discovering your goal and aiming towards a unique future. The most frustrating and exhausting thing in life is to live it not being aware of your purpose.

Helen Keller discovered the right idea: “Many persons have a wrong idea of what constitute true happiness. It is not attained through self-gratification but through fidelity to a worthy purpose.” Never wish to be anything be what you are created to be—your purpose. “We must have a theme, a goal, a purpose in our lives. If you don’t know where you’re aiming, you don’t have a goal. My goal is to live my life in such a way that I die, someone can say, she cared” [Mary Kay Ash].

Nothing Significant Can Be Accomplished Without Preparation.

Joeforlove





Preparation. Does this word scare or give you inspiration at every moment? There is nothing significant that can be accomplished without equipping or training ourselves. “A good education is not so much one which prepares a man to succeed in the world, as the one which enables him to sustain a failure” [Bernard Iddings Bell]. Don’t tolerate failure to meet you without you being prepared.

When you spend time preparing yourself, no one will stop you from accomplishing a good result. I agree with Fred Couples when he said, “When you’re prepared, you’re more confident. When you have a strategy, you’re more comfortable.” The most significant people are those who prepare themselves today to accomplish tomorrow. H. Jackson brown Jr. remarked, “The best preparation for tomorrow is doing your best today.”

Benjamin Franklin said, “By failing to prepare you are preparing to fail.” Can you constantly progress if you cannot equip yourself? Impossible! Ralph Waldo Emerson declared, “Men succeed when they realize that their failures are the preparation for there victories.” Our readiness to undertake the outstanding opportunities and courage to start living a high-quality life can greatly add to our success. “It is better to be prepare for an opportunity and not have one than to have an opportunity and not be prepared” [Whitney Young Jr.]

Life is about preparation, not luck. Consider what Seneca said, “Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.” When Abraham Lincoln discover the importance of preparation, he said, “I will prepare and some day my chance will come.” The same kind of preparation that brought you to where you are today, can necessarily accomplish your dreams when better chances runs your way. With your permission, nothing difficult can stop you from going forward.

Malcolm X said, “Education is our passport to the future, for tomorrow belongs to the people who prepare for it today.” When you focus your time and attention on things you are gifted to do, every limitation that should stop you from progressing, run absent–people begin to imitate you. Raymond Berry said, “The most prepared are the most dedicated.”

As a refugee youth, I've value the importance of Preparation than Pleasure! You can do the same and live your Dreams.

May God bless your day!

Joeforlove
Buduburam Camp