Sunday, December 20, 2009

Joeforlove’s Season Greetings: Top 13 Tips

Dave Barry wrote, "Once again we find ourselves enmeshed in the Holiday Season, that very special time of year when we join with our loved ones in sharing centuries-old traditions such as trying to find a parking space at the mall. We traditionally do this in my family by driving around the parking lot until we see a shopper emerge from the mall, then we follow her, in very much the same spirit as the Three Wise Men, who 2,000 years ago followed a star, week after week, until it led them to a parking space."

It is said that, "In the old days, it was not called the Holiday Season; the Christians called it 'Christmas' and went to church; the Jews called it 'Hanukka' and went to synagogue; the atheists went to parties and drank. People passing each other on the street would say 'Merry Christmas!' or 'Happy Hanukka!' or (to the atheists) 'Look out for the wall!'"

The great basketball coach John Wooden said, "You cannot live a perfect day without doing something for someone who will never be able to repay you." To all my wonderful friends, and fans, I must use this opportunity to assert with some degree of happiness saying, ‘Season Greetings.’ You have been my inspiration and my motivation to persuade my dream. How could this year be without you?

Top 13 Tips to Increase your Season Benefits:

Forget About The Past Failures In 2009

Forgive Yourself And Anyone For Anything Done Wrong

Count Your Achievement

Appreciate Your Efforts

Love The People Who Love You The Most

Spend Time With Your Family

Put Smiles On Your Face

Give A Gift To Someone New

Make A Card Yourself And Write A Letter To Your Sweet Heart

Make Someone Happy

Invest In Others

Be Aggressively Thankful

Make A BIG 2010 Plan

Listen to Phyllis Diller, "Christmas is a time when everybody wants his past forgotten and his present remembered. What I don't like about office Christmas parties is looking for a job the next day." Hahahah, just kidding. But may this Christmas bring you the joy you’ve long to have, the courage to you need to continue achieving, the love you need to feel happy and the blessing that opens the doors of opportunities!

Thanks for Reading,


Wednesday, December 16, 2009

The 12 Qualities of a Winner

INTRODUCTION: This is one of my best best master piece from my mentor: Mike Murdock . "12 Qualities of a Winner," it have empowered my winning story. It can be the same unto whosoever that read carefully and apply these principles. Everyone Is A Potential Winner. Winning Don’t Just Happen, It Takes Decision, Planning, Efforts And Discipline.

“If you want to be a winner, hang around with winners.”

Christopher D. Furman

Quality # 1: Winners Sets Goal

“Goal” is something one wishes to obtain or reach. How do u set Goal?

· S – Specific Phil 3:13

· M – Measurable Phil 4: 13; 3: 14

· A – Achievable

· R – Realistic Rom. 12: 3

· T – Time base Habb 2:3

· O – On paper Habb 2:3

· N - Notable Deut 29:29

· E – Exciting Luke 13:32; Isa. 14:24

WISDOM: When you decide what you want the method for achieving it will come.

Quality # 2: Winner Organizes His Life Around His Dream And Goal

© Stop dwelling on the past and move on with your life – Jos. 1:1, 2

© Make the most of the present Eph. 5:15 -17

© There is a future ahead of you, which you need to prepare for – 1 Cor. 2:9

© Jesus organized His life around His Dream. By the age of 12 He was in the temple

WISDOM: Keep things in order around you that moves you towards your future.

QUALITY # 3: Winner Create A Climate That Feed Their Passion For Their Dream And Goal

© Example: David 1 Sam. 17.25 – 30

© You must control the atmosphere around you

© Do not create anything you don’t want a more of.

WISDOM: The atmospheres you create determine the product you produce.

QUALITY # 4: Winner Chooses A Mentor

© A mentor is someone who sees your future before you do. A person who habitually advise.

Example: Esther – Mordecia Est. 2:7

Timothy – Paul I Tim. 1.12

Elisha – Elijah

© The quality of the winner / mentor cannot be determined by the quality of the prodigy.

WISDOM: The passion of the prodigy can be measure by his pursuit of his mentor

QUALITY # 5: Winner Solve The Problem Closer To Them

© The problem closer to you is your exist from prison – Ex. Joseph – Gen 40.5 – 8

© God use your present to qualify you for your future

© Reward in life is determined by the problem you are willing to solve for others.

WISDOM: your salary will be determined by the problem you are willing to solve

QUALITY # 6: Winner Packages Themselves For Where They Are Going Instead Of Where They Are Coming From

© You have to package yourself for the office you want to enter

© Physicallt, mentally ect packaging matters

© 98% of those employed was because of their physical appearance

© Example: Joseph had to change his cloth before going to the palace gen. 41.4

© Ruth before she went to Boaz Ruth 3.1 – 3

QUALITY # 7: Winner Recognizes The Greatness In Those Closer To Them

If you wan to do everything alone you are out for failure and self destruction – Moses (Ex. 18.14 21)

© Any ability you do not have God placed it in the people closer to you. Moses & Aaron

© Love is the secret code to the treasure of that person’s potential – I Cor 12:31 – 13.1

WISDOM: If you are looking for everyone around to be perfect you are out for a lonely life.

QUALITY # 8: Winner Create Daily Routine That Moves Them Hourly Towards Their Greatest Dream

© People do not determine their future; they decide their habit and their habit create their future

© Something you are doing daily is creating your future.

WISDOM: The secret of your future is hidden in your daily routine

QUALITY # 9: Winner Study And Document The Result Of Their Effort And Those Under Their Supervision – Luke 9:10

© You have to evaluate your life daily, weekly, monthly, yearly

© As you evaluate you will know how far you are in your plans and desire.

WISDOM: Anything you ignored diminishes; anything inspected improved.

QUALITY # 10: Winners Knows The Co-Product And Legacy They Want To Live With Their Lives.

© You must know in one word what your life is all about

© If you don’t know what your life is about no one knows and no one will fellow you.

WISDOM: You will only succeed with something that concerns you.

QUALITY # 11: Winners Recognizes Enemies As Opportunities For Promotion

Enemies Are As Necessary As Friends

© Friends create comfort while your enemies create change

© Enemies are permitted by God to change the season of your life.

Example: Goliath change the season of David’s life

Joseph brothers change the season of his life

Judas change the season of Jesus’ life

WISDOM: The size of your enemies determines the size of your reward.

QUALITY # 12: Winner Recognizes God As Their True Source Of Everything.

© You have to see God as your source and every other person as a channel.

© God will use people but they are not the source.

Wisdom: God will always supply once you depend on Him.

About Mike Murdock: (born April 18, 1946 in Lake Charles, Louisiana, United States) is a televangelist and pastor of the Wisdom Center ministry based in Fort Worth, Texas. He preached his first public sermon at the age of eight and began full-time evangelism at the age of 19. Murdock claims that he receives hundreds of invitations to speak in churches, colleges, and business corporations. He has appeared on TBN, CBN, BET, INSP, WORD, Daystar and other television networks, and his weekly television program, Wisdom Keys with Mike Murdock. Murdock is a Founding Trustee on the Board of International Charismatic Bible Ministries with Dr. Oral Roberts.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Joeforlove Love Alphabeth

Pratical Alphabetial Approach To Love

“Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.”

— Oliver Wendell Holmes

A — Always be the first to smile with the person you love

B — Believe in love at first sight

C — Create the confidence, stability and passion in yourself as you love

D — Don’t judge a person by whom he/she is in love with. Judge them by their friends

E — Every time you have a chance to love, never give your heart and body to someone you don’t really know

F — Friendship will be damage when you break up. You will lose the people you need around you

G — Get committed to using your head in matters of the heart

H — Have this in mind, love begin with a smile, grow with a kiss but ends in the grave

I — In getting the person you love, fight fairly. No crykeep trying

J — Joke with the people you love. Love them as if they will soon be lost

K — Know that if you have any reason to not love a person, don’t waste your time loving them

L — Look out for three things in the person you love: The Challenge, the attraction, and the Respect

M — Mark this: if you truly love someone, you will never put pressure and unreasonable

problem on them.

N — Never rush into a relationship, you’ll experience more joy as your love gradually develop

O — One key instrument to a lasting relationship could be your little time and gifts you invest

P — People who don’t demand for sex may love you the most

Q — Quality love is good. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it is the only

way to live life happily

R — Remember L-O-V-E: LookObserveVerifyEngage

S — Spend time with the person you really love

T — The more you maintain yourself, the more room you create for growth

U — Up keeping a love relationship with knowledge will never end in heartbreak

V — View the person you love as a bird, because, when they fly away, you’ll miss them for the rest of your life

W — When you say “I’m sorry,” look the person in the eye

When you say “I love you,” mean it from your heart

X — Xtra discipline of emotional behaviors, will enable you to avoid hurts and being

manipulated in a love relationship

Y — You risk being deceived by someone with an impure motive

Z — Zealous zigzag love will send you into a zoo of successful frustration.

Thanks for reading!


Think positively

Your problem is: You waste too much time trying to change people mind on what they think about you. Anything that is successful from stopping you to think positively has plausibly succeeded in making you a failure. In the Bishop ministration, Run To The Water, TD Jakes asserted, “Thinking is the first step to the revolution in your life that is incredibly significant.”

Listen, if you fail to think positively you have succeeded in becoming a loser. Winners are confident, optimistic and focused on good things rather than the bad. Be certain and not in doubt. Winners live above average and is producing good results because they have an innately beneficiaries character.

Beyond all doubt or question, you must use the mind to subdue imminent challenges. If you are bound in your thinking you’ll fail to be creative. Everything we touch, feel or see began in the thought of somebody’s mind. It becomes a thought before it came into existence. Do not allow anybody laugh at your thinking.

British advertising executive and author, Andy Law (1956 –) reflected, “Creativity can provide all the solution to the complex problems of the workplace. Creative thinking is a positive, generative force that uses imagination to power business.” If you think positively, your mind goes to work and won’t allow anything get in its way. No force will arrest or resist your achievement strategy. Be in-love with your thought!

Tuesday, December 8, 2009


1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her 1 of your sweatshirts
5. Kiss her slowly.

Are you remembering this?

6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her everywhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.


11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can't get to her friends. it makes her feel loved.

Are you thinking of someone?

16. Always hug her and say hi whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she's beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.
One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.

21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car (if any)- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she's your everything - ONLY if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her.
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know


26. DON'T lie to her
27. DON'T cheat on her!
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants

29. Text messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her.
30. Be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.


31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold YOU too.
32. When you are ALONE hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the CHEEK: (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her LIGHTLY.
35. Dont EVER tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her.

36. When people DISS her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her EYES and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the STARS and put her head on your chest so you can cuddle.
39. When walking next to each other grab her HAND.
40. When you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible


41. Call or text her EVERY night to wish her SWEET DREAMS
42. COMFORT her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for LONG walks at night.
44. ALWAYS remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much u love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while sitting on her.
46. Rub her back--feels good
47. Give her your coat if she's cold--thats always cute
48. Write letters on her back with your finger--feels good ;D
49. Let her sit on your lap
50. DON'T poke her hard...but if you want to mess around just do it lightly.
51. HOLD her HAND in PUBLIC.
52. Even if she looks BAD one day tell her she's BEAUTIFUL
53. Keep conversations about anything usually they just go along with it.
54. If their hair is in their face move it out of her face and then kiss her passionatley and gently.
55. Surprisingly sneek up on her and hug her from behind--loves it.
56. Kiss her in the rain.
57. Pick her up like in The Notebook and kiss her.
58. Slow dance with no music
59. Don't ignore her or be nerveous around her--everything is going to be okay.
60. Love her, kiss her, hold her, and you'll be good to go. ;D